Hello my Darlings…I hope your week was great? Well, mine was okay but I was disappointed that NLC didn’t stick to the plan of going on strike because I really wanted to sleep and rest all week. I’m excited sharing a new post on ”Thonia’s thought”, I know many of you are surprised I’m discussing the topic marriage on the blog, Well This topic has been on my mind for a long time and I definitely couldn’t resist not sharing on the blog.
I keep asking myself why do people get married? Is it for companionship, Money, to show off on social media, to avoid being laughed at as soon as they clock 25 or the fear of being tagged the single lonely girl? I have asked myself all these questions because the rate at which couples divorce after spending so much on the wedding and pre- wedding shoots is alarming.
Why do I want to get married? I’ve never really asked myself this question maybe because I’ve not found the one I want to spend the rest of my life with but I think I would get married when I find the one that loves and accepts me for who I am, The one that would laugh at my very dry jokes and most importantly the one that is willing to support me in whatever I decide to do. He should be ready to still love me after realizing that I get very excited when I see pizza or hear my favorite song come up on TV or the radio and I sometimes even scream and sing along not minding that I have a very horrible voice Lol. I can really go on and on about why I want to get married.
I think the world would be a better place and the rate of divorce would be highly reduced if women are not judged for not getting married because really one shouldn’t be defined by their relationship status. The fact that people bash single women on social media for airing their views on certain topics is quite disturbing and is the cause of people staying in failed marriages.
I wore this yellow off- shoulder dress that I totally love to my friends wedding last week Saturday and I’m very excited to see my friends become amazing women and soon they would be amazing mothers too.
I pray we get married to the one that we would spend the rest of our lives with and be filled with happiness and that the world doesn’t see marriage as a criteria for greatness.
Why do you want to get married? What are your views on marriages? Your comments would be appreciated.
Dress: Custom made
Make up: Joy of @Glitters_look on instagram
Have a great weekend. XOXO TBankz